That date you’ve circled on your calendar… the one for your wedding, your big product launch, what’s supposed to be the most important day of the year… what if I told you it was doomed from the start?
What if the universe already scheduled a cosmic storm right on top of it? And every dollar you spend, every plan you make, is just fuel for the coming chaos?
You’ve checked the venue. You’ve sent the invites. But you forgot to check the one thing that governs the flow of energy, communication, and even love itself: the planets. And right now, they might be conspiring to make your perfect day a total nightmare.
Stay with me, because I’m going to show you exactly which cosmic curses to look out for—and how to save your event before it’s too late.
Section 1: The Hidden Disasters in Your Calendar
Most of us plan our lives around holidays, seasons, and work schedules. But there’s a much older, more powerful calendar at play. This is the calendar of the cosmos, and ignoring it is like trying to sail the ocean without even glancing at the weather forecast.
The practice of picking the right date for an event is a branch of astrology called Electional Astrology. People have used it for centuries to choose the best moments for everything from getting married to launching a business. But when you don’t use it, you’re just flying blind.
Let’s talk about the biggest and most infamous cosmic curse: Mercury Retrograde. Three or four times a year, the planet Mercury looks like it’s moving backward in the sky. Since Mercury rules all the things that make an event work—communication, travel, technology, and scheduling—life gets messy when it’s retrograde.
Think about what that means for your event. Your keynote speaker gets stuck in traffic because of a freak flight delay. The sound system dies right before the big speech. Contracts are full of typos that cause massive headaches later. RSVPs get lost, emails are misunderstood, and arguments break out over the dumbest little things.
Now, imagine planning your wedding during that. In 2025, Mercury goes retrograde three times. For example, there’s a period from March 14th to April 7th. If your spring wedding is booked in late March, you could be setting yourself up for one frustrating mishap after another. Another retrograde hits right in the middle of summer, from about July 17th to August 11th. And a final one messes with the holiday season from November 9th to November 29th. Planning something important during these windows isn’t just risky; it’s like sending trouble a formal invitation.
Section 2: When Love Itself Is Cursed
But it’s not just Mercury. For any event that’s about relationships, beauty, or money—like weddings, anniversary parties, or even a gallery opening—there’s another planet you absolutely have to watch: Venus. Venus is the planet of love, harmony, beauty, and money. When it goes retrograde, all of those things are up for review.
A Venus retrograde is a terrible time to get married. Why? Because energy is all about re-evaluating love, not committing to it. Old issues can resurface. Doubts you never knew you had can creep in. The whole aesthetic of your event can feel off, leading to fights with decorators or just feeling disappointed with how everything looks.
In 2025, Venus was retrograded from March 1st to April 12th. This is a time when the universe is asking you to reflect on your values, not lock them down in a lifelong contract. Starting a marriage under this influence is like setting off on a road trip with a faulty GPS; you’re bound to get lost.
This particular retrograde starts in the fiery, impulsive sign of Aries before backing into dreamy, emotional Pisces. That can stir up a volatile mix of passionate fights and confusing, teary emotions. It’s a recipe for drama. If your wedding falls in this window, you’re not just fighting logistical problems, you’re fighting cosmic energy that could undermine the very union you’re trying to celebrate.
And it doesn’t stop there. Mars, the planet of action and conflict, also has its retrogrades. A Mars retrograde can suck the energy out of an event, making everything feel slow and unmotivated. Even worse, it can bring hidden tensions to the surface, turning a party into a battlefield. The year 2025 actually kicks off during a Mars Retrograde that lasts until February 23rd. This can create a sense of burnout before you’ve even started, which is not the vibe you want for a major new chapter in your life or business.
Section 3: The Moon and The Void
Beyond the big retrogrades, there’s a sneakier curse to watch for: the Void-of-Course Moon. This happens every couple of days, sometimes for just a few minutes, other times for several hours. It’s the weird, quiet gap after the Moon has made its last major connection to another planet but before it moves into the next zodiac sign.
Think of the Moon as the emotional engine of your event. It sets the mood. When the Moon is void-of-course, that engine is just idling. Things started during this time rarely pan out. Decisions made often change later. Things you buy gets returned. The event itself can feel flat and aimless, like something important is missing.
Imagine saying your wedding vows during a void-of-course Moon. The whole ceremony might feel emotionally disconnected, and the intention you’re setting for your future could just… fizzle. If it’s a product launch, it could mean the product never really gets traction or the launch party is totally forgettable.
These periods aren’t on your Google Calendar, but they’re a huge part of planning with astrology. Knowing when these voids are help you schedule the most critical moments—the “I do’s,” the product reveal, the contract signing—for a time when the Moon is actually engaged and ready to work for you.
Section 4: Turning Chaos into a Perfectly Executed Plan
Okay, so I’ve laid out all the cosmic traps waiting to ruin your day. Now, let’s talk about how to fight back and actually use this stuff to your advantage. This isn’t about being scared of the planets; it’s about learning to work with their rhythms.
First, the best way to fix a cursed date is to pick a powerful one from the start. That’s the whole point of Electional Astrology—to basically create a “birth chart” for your event that’s as strong as possible.
Here is your cosmic checklist for picking a better date:
Number One: Avoid the big retrogrades. We’ve covered Mercury, Venus, and Mars. Before you book anything, just do a quick search for the retrograde periods for that year. For 2025, this means you need to be extra careful in late winter and early spring, because you have Mars, Venus, and Mercury all going retrograde back-to-back.
Number Two: Use the Moon’s power. Instead of fearing the void-of-course Moon, use its phases to your advantage. A New Moon is fantastic for new beginnings, making it perfect for launching a business. The energy builds as the moon gets fuller (the waxing phase), which is great for events that need to build buzz and excitement. A Full Moon is all about celebration and peak emotion, making it ideal for a wedding reception or a big reveal.
Number Three: Look for helpful planets. You want the planets of luck and love on your side. Look for days when Venus (love, harmony) and Jupiter (luck, expansion) are making positive connections to other planets. For instance, on August 11th, 2025, Venus and Jupiter will join together, creating a beautiful energy for any event focused on connection and celebration. In contrast, you want to avoid days when Mars (conflict) or Saturn (restriction) are in stressful positions.
Number Four: Check the year’s overall energy. Some years are just more intense than others. For example, 2025 sees major planets like Saturn and Neptune changing signs for the first time in many years, which can bring huge waves of change and uncertainty. Knowing this broader theme helps you manage expectations and build in a little extra flexibility.
Choosing a date isn’t just about logistics; it’s the act of giving your event its own birthday. And just like a person’s birth chart, that date will describe its potential, its challenges, and its ultimate fate. You have the power to decide if that fate is one of success and harmony, or one of struggle and chaos.
The first step is simply being aware. Now you are. You know to check for retrogrades, to pay attention to the Moon, and to look for supportive cosmic energy. For those who want to go even deeper, once you have your date, you can look at the days leading up to the event or celebration, during, and afterwards. Wouldn’t you like to know what the energy will be like on your honeymoon?
You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
We know that life doesn’t come with a manual. The pressures and uncertainties of planning major milestones can feel overwhelming, especially when so much is riding on the outcome. That’s why we’re here to help you find clarity in the chaos and ensure that your special moments unfold with cosmic support.
Whether you’re celebrating a union, preparing for a new job, or stepping into a new business venture, we are here to guide you. Tilly’s Custom Forecast Report is more than just a tool—it’s a powerful way to connect with the energies that surround you, ensuring that you are always in the right place at the right time.
Let us help you make your most important moments shine. The stars are already on your side—it’s time to take advantage of the energies they’re offering. Reach out today and let’s make your event as extraordinary as it’s meant to be.
Now that we have researched the energy for the collective, and we have picked THE DATE let’s really understand how the days will flow for you, personally. Let’s find out exactly how this energy will affect you, how it can help you by knowing in advance what’s around the corner or behind the curtain!
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Don’t let the cosmos curse your big day. Take control, plan with intention, and turn what could have been a cosmic storm into a celebration that was truly written in the stars.
